So...I'm here to vent a little...well actually more than a litte!!!
My oldest sisters decided to get married at the age of 31, after saying her ENTIRE life that marriage was not for her! Yes, I realize that people have the right to change their mind. But she is marrying someone that is 20...FYI thats ELEVEN years younger!!! Yes, I know that age shouldnt matter if you love the person...whatever!!! My main issues with this is that my entire life, I have always been told that my family MUST like the person that I want to marry and that I have a college degree before I get married. Well guess what? Apparently none of this applies to my sister! seeing that she stilll does not have a college degree and more than half of my family does not like him!!!
It really pisses me off, that something I have been told my entire life does not apply to her! I mean we are sisters from the same parents, WTF?
To make things worse I drive a total of 8+ hours to visit her, which now only include talking about this freaking wedding...which she never really cared about in the first place!!! Seeing that she doesnt really see the point in them! I hontesly believe she is just trying to rub it in jahna's face that her wedding is going to be better...seeing that everything she is doing jahna wanted done, but my mom got in the way to much! Also on the visits, if she is not talking about this wedding then she is talking to dan...the 20-yr old she is marrying...all the freaking time!! So tell me what is the freaking point in me going down there?
Thats right because there isnt one!!!!!
oh and another thing, I deceide to to try and be nice about this, and accepted to be her maid of honor. Well lets just say that is going south as well!! About a month ago she asked me what shoes I thought the bridesmaids should wear. Well the dresses are navy sundress, I told her that brown heels would look the best. Well apparently she asked another bridesmaid last week what color they should be and decided on silver! of course lets change things last minute!!! i found out today about this....THE WEEK OF THE FREAKING WEDDING!!! not to mention the fact that i have a final on thursday!!! because I had to take it early because of this STUPID event!!!
I SWEAR MY FAMILY IS TRYING TO KILL ME FROM STRESS!!!
THERE IS TOO MUCH STUFF THEY ARE EXPECTING ME TO DO BEFORE I LEAVE FOR MY ARMY TRAINING ON THE 10TH!!!
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I'm sorry Nea. I didn't mean to stress you out. I say we rebel and go barefoot.
so, i just read this and I can't believe what an evil sister you have. I mean seriously, she is the pits. I'm sure that you have had to put up with her crainess all of your life and I think that it should definately stop.
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