Lesson learned!

These past few weeks have been pretty tough for this optimistic. I finally finished my three weeks of acting commander with no major issues. So monday it's back to regular duties and having to find a parking spot in a mess of army parking. But I'll definitely be happy to feel a little more relaxed and focus on learning my job. Overall work has been more enjoyable then everything going on outside of work. This is where it's been hard tough.... Off time. My mama taught me to be a sweet caring lady, to listen to both sides of the story and make a reasonable decision, and when the tough gets going you become that sweet charming southern bell that couldn't hurt a fly. Well why this is important is because of the situation I put myself in last summer that I thought was a good idea at the time. I'll try to make this story short... I met my roommate (old roommate) during army training a year ago. Well during our time in training we became pretty good friends and since we were both headed to bragg decided we should move in together. She tells me that she is talking to a guy at bragg and he might be over a lot. Me, being a very chill person was like that's cool girl it's whatever. Little did I know it would all go down hill from there. He pretty much moved in, which was cool because it made my rent cheaper. Any who, they got engaged last fall... A little weird living with a engaged couple but whatever. Well they planned to get married in July back home but they decided in February that they were just going to go to the JP and tie the knot! Exciting right... Well in march they decided they were going to buy a house and found one the very weekend they started looking... They started the process of buying it and it was finally complete about a week ago. Well through out the whole thing I knew were we gunna have to break the lease but didn't really think I should have to pay that because I was happy staying in the apartment thru the agreement of our lease. Well that's not how they saw it and I tried to reason with them but there was no budging them. So know I have to find a new place, pay all those fees and stuff along with the stuff at the old place. Originally they said I could stay with them thru our original agreement... But I didn't have a good feeling about it. So I told them I would let them know for sure after I looked at a few places, they said they would help me look but oddly enough every time I told them I was going to look they were conveniently busy. After having no luck and the fear of a government shutdown. I went back to them and was like can I just stay thru may since I'm having to pay the lease break fee, they said yes... Awesome right! Haha the next day I get a message saying that we need to talk about it because his parents were coming the last week and a half of may, after talking he said it would be cool and they would just stay in a hotel... The next day I got another message saying that I could stay thru the 15 of may because his sister and brother in law here coming too and his parents don't want to pay for all of them to stay in a hotel and the whole reason they decided to come was because they would have the house... Messed up right... Tell your "friend" she can stay so that's what she is planning for and then all the sudden you throw that at her! Trying to be nice and remain calm I was like okay. Well they were suppose to move out this weekend however they decided all the sudden Wednesday to get the uhaul and move out Wednesday night... Oh earlier in that day he messaged me saying that "We are going to have to wait to move your shit just cuz we are painting the baby's room." WTH!! Oh btw they found out Sunday night she was pregnant and during this past week she found out she is 6 weeks along. So yeah after everything that happened with them telling me I could and then all the sudden change it every time we agree on something. I got tired of being dragged along, and went and made other arrangements for living until may 15 when the apartment I found would be ready. Anywho the point of this is because I do not understand how someone who says they are your friend can do that. How can you be that shady? How can you put you "friend" in that type of situation and sleep at night? I mean for a good week or so I had no idea where I was going to live come 1 may. Thank goodness for Britt, Brett and Scott.